Archive for August, 2006

Get the popcorn ready!

Friday, August 25th, 2006

They make us laugh until we cry. Or just cry. They have spirit. They take us somewhere special…

An American In Paris
Auntie Mame
Broken Flowers
Bug
Chocolat
The Chorus
City of Lost Children
Clueless
The Dish
Everything is Illuminated
Fairy Tale: A True Story
Gigi
In America
Laughing Club of India (on Full Frame Documentary Series)
Genghis Blues
Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner
Matchstick Men
Millions
Monsieur Ibraham
The New Heroes (four-hour series hosted by Robert Redford)
Roman Holiday
Saint Ralph
Sexy Beast
The Station Agent
Turtles Can Fly
Wallace and Gromit: Curse of the Wererabbit

Random

Friday, August 25th, 2006

The items in bold from the Random Acts of Kindness list have been accomplished:

  • Pay bridge tolls for car behind you
  • Buy someone a free coffee
  • Give candy to strangers
  • Hold the door open for someone
  • Compliment someone on their attire
  • Help carry groceries
  • Get rid of spare change – Feed a meter
  • Give money to homeless person
  • Give food to homeless
  • Start conversation with homeless person
  • Let someone cut in line
  • Offer to carry someone’s bag at airport
  • Give movie ticket to a stranger
  • Donate clothes
  • Make a donation in someone’s name
  • Mow someone’s lawn
  • Prune rose bush – check first with owner
  • Bring newspaper up the steps to someone’s porch
  • Give someone time by doing something – offer time
  • Pick up a friend’s dry cleaning
  • Make something for somebody – a poem
  • Write someone his or her own personal theme music

When someone came up with “Make a Donation in Someone’s Name” I never imagined it would mean donating money to a memorial fund. A co-worker’s son, Britt, died in a motorcycle accident. I attended his funeral.

Three weeks ago, my mother attended two funerals – one for our dear friend Janie’s mother, and then the funeral for the father of our dear friend, Suellyn. Last week, Suellyn’s husband, Ted, also passed away. Two of my mother’s closest friends are extremely ill. My father’s best friend since kindergarten has been the hospital for months fighting for his life. Last weekend there was an email letting us know that my best friend’s grandmother had fallen seriously ill and her family was rushing to be by her side. The email stated, “Please keep our family in your prayers.” Her grandmother passed away.

“Please keep our family in your prayers.” I kept thinking about that sentence as I watched the sun rise outside our bedroom window and again, at night, as I watched the fog dance over the hills and hug the moon. “Please keep our family in your prayers.”

Life is random. I’ll keep praying…and finish the list.

Stressed spelled backwards

Friday, August 11th, 2006

Last night Gunnar treated us to dessert at a lovely restaurant. I was anticipating a reliable standard…some delicious ice cream, a piece of apple pie or, perhaps, a slice of chocolate cake. One of these would have been perfectly fine but Gunnar had his eye on something different.

The waiter placed a thick rectangular slab of marble on the table – it was warm to the touch. On the marble platter were the following ingredients: candied walnuts, toasted almonds, sliced apple, poached figs, walnut levain and a triangle of Cravanzina, a creamy cow and sheep milk cheese from Piemonte.

Piemonte is a region of northwestern Italy – the capital is Turin. Piemonte is surrounded on three sides by the Alps mountain range, including the Monviso, where the Po River rises, and Monte Rosa. It borders with France, Switzerland, and the Italian regions of Lombardy, Liguria, Emilia-Romagna, and the Aosta Valley. Thanks Wikipedia! We need to go to Piemonte.

You may be thinking, what’s the big deal? She just described a bunch of fruits and nuts sitting next to some bread and cheese on a weird heated serving dish. We can eat nuts and fruit at home. Heck, she’s a vegetarian, she does it all the time anyway.

Each thin apple slice was carved in the shape of a tulip leaf and fanned out, standing upright, on the right corner of the grey marble. I still can’t figure out how the apple slices didn’t fall over in transit. In front of the apples were the poached figs, sliced in small flat ovals, their seeds glistening in a blanket of sweet liquor. The ovals formed a diamond shape and sat in a thin pool of deep purple. Sprinkled around and on top of the figs were the almonds, so perfectly toasted that they broke in half when just kissed by the tip of the tongue. On the left side of the platter was a small pyramid of walnuts coated with a slight dusting of cinnamon, sugar and butter, served cool, and feather light to the touch. The walnut levain held court in the top left corner, the slices were paper thin, yet hearty in flavor, and served warm. Just warm enough to inspire the Cravanzina, it’s triangular neighbor, to melt ever so slightly onto the bread.

The combinations! Cravanzina on a slice of apple topped with a bit of fig! Cravanzina on levain with a slice of apple! Nibble on an almond after it floats in the purple elixir. Place a spoonful of chocolate pudding into your mouth and follow it with a candied walnut. Wait! I didn’t mention the decadent chocolate pudding with chocolate-infused whipped cream? The frothy concoction housed in a dainty glass arrived just moments after the fromage platter.

I’d like to deliver our dessert to everyone in the world tonight. I imagine they would breathe in the aromas and it would calm them down. I imagine they would taste the sweetness and it would make them smile. I imagine they would finish it, every nut and slice and crumb, and feel content, satisfied, safe, and at peace.

Thank you Gunnar for reminding me to savor the simple things. The proof…is in the pudding!

Swirl Soup Recipe #2

Monday, August 7th, 2006

As of 1:50am, my Swirl Soup recipe looks like this:

Prep:
Trim the worry about the future, discard the frayed ends and worn tips, season with the most compassionate act you can do for anyone. “Stand by the truth of your own life and live it as fully and passionately as you are able*.”

Continue to make weekly visits to the library, take long daily walks, practice reduction of negative thinking, and continue to write gratitude and daily journals.

Set the table.

Steps:

  1. Welcome houseguests from Germany. Our kind friends, Nandini and Thomas brought laughter, joy, and healing into our home and we are so grateful.
  2. Open the lid and my heart to celestial guardians, memorize and actualize their triumphant message. Begin a daily conversation with my angels. Simmer.
  3. Mix in one retreat by the lake with my exquisite boyfriend, enjoy the breathtaking natural beauty of Maine, and revel in the silence.
  4. Add an eventful weekend trip to New York City, melt over high heat (what a heat wave!) and cool down in the airplane ride home.
  5. Add a cup of supportive friends, stirring in conversations about everything under the sun; add a pinch of quality talk time with family members until tender.
  6. Separate old beliefs and new beliefs, scrub them and gradually dice each one. All human beings are eternal spiritual beings…we exist before we enter this physical shell and continue when we die. It is marvelous to consider this: “everything that happens in life has its own unique and proper place, both in the ecology of a single life and in the pattern, the web, of the human race as a whole…This is a lofty and difficult conclusion to come to, and yet it brings with it a huge sigh of relief. After all, if this is so, it means that, in the end, everything – everything, is all right…all shall be well.” Add peace and healing energy into the pan (and out into the world). Cook gently, slowly, to soften.
  7. Attend Britt Daniel’s funeral and listen to the comforting bells during the service. Send healing energy to his family and friends. Find support in the belief that we are eternal.
  8. Practice listening skills and simmer gently uncovered while enjoying the 8/4/06 pod cast of Bill Moyers and Pema Chodron’s interview on Faith and Reason, stir occasionally.
  9. Ask more questions about right livelihood…don’t expect answers. Sign up for “Positive Psychology in the Workplace” course and begin new job search. Do not boil.

Add seasoning to taste:
“Kabir tells us to jump, to break the ropes, to plunge into the truth. This is all you can do when you have come to the end of your rope, to the end of your strategies, and don’t know what else to do. It is a surrender, a falling in, not an act or initiative, but a willing acquiescence to what is so and has always been so.”*

Nutritional Fact:
What is so and has always been so?

The reason I live is to love.

Serve at once.

*from Roger Housden’s Ten Poems to Change Your Life on loan from my dear friend, Victoria. Thank you Vicki!!!

My Maine Memories

Sunday, August 6th, 2006

I came home to Jesus. Literally. He was waiting on our welcome mat.

Jesus at my door I’d like to thank the Mormons for the lovely card. It would have been nice to have met the kind souls who dropped it off. I would have definitely shared my July 11th Dog Spelled Backwards post with them and, of course, I would have inquired about the afghan hound situation. Since writing that post I’ve noticed many “Dog is my co-pilot” bumper stickers. Its got me thinking about dogs and enlightenment…but I’ll leave that for another time.

I’m going to take a few minutes to reflect and celebrate a most lovely trip back East. It was my first venture to Maine and I was also able to don my New York City tour guide hat for a few days, which I truly enjoyed. It was a blast to show Gunnar “my New York” and yes, the tour completely revolved around food. Pizza. Check. Chinese Food. Check. Zen Palate. Check. Carnegie Deli. Check. Bagels. Check. Check. Check Please!

Now, we can celebrate all that is Maine for hours. The glorious white pine trees. The pristine lakes. The mountains. The state animal, the moose (the only one I saw was on the relative’s dinner plate). The state insect, the honeybee (she was a BIG bee). The state bird, the chickadee (not one sighting but I did overhear a fella at the gas station say, “Check out that hot chick.”) The state berry, the wild blueberry (I picked them!) and the state soil, from the Chesuncook soil series (which is still stuck in the treads of my New Balance – was it legal to cross state lines?).

Yes, Maine’s natural beauty is most memorable but so are the signs dotted along the highway which advertise, “Maine. Worth a Visit. Worth a Lifetime.” Let me repeat, “Maine. Worth a Visit. Worth a Lifetime.” Hmmm, do I want to visit Maine or die in Maine?

Actually, I can’t wait to visit again. Maine unwrapped so many gifts (to name just a few) — kayaking with Gunnar, looking out the window in the early morning light and seeing the pink and purple cloud-filled sky perfectly reflected in the calm lake, a lazy afternoon swinging in the hammock, an afternoon hike with his sister at Wilhelm Reich’s Orgonon, an exhilarating boat ride with Gunnar’s brother-in-law and nephews, reading on the porch and taking breaks to watch the loons, and many delicious meals served with silly stories and lots of laughter.

But the one gift that I will never forget was…the silence.

One night as we were walking by the lake we stopped talking and heard…nothing. Not a fish jumping, not a cricket chirping, not a loon singing. The wind was completely still. After awhile I heard a soft whirring sound and recognized it as the blood moving in my veins…or was it the sound of the stars vibrating in my ears? That night as I melted into bed, completely relaxed, I thought about that sound…my energy, a force. Life energy, its eternal power. I thought about it again on the flight home, and last night as I enjoyed the comfort of our own bed.

I imagine I’ll visit the memory often…it’s worth a lifetime!